Using Women to Destroy Men

“You’re not dangerous,” I told Garry. “A man has a right to be master of his domain. Quit beating yourself up.”

by Henry Makow, Ph.D.

When I was young, there was a saying: “Behind every successful man is a woman.”

Women used to empower men. How? By accepting their leadership. By being First Mate to their Captain.

Women benefited from this arrangement. In marriage, they shared in the fruits of a man’s achievements.

The Illuminati realized that this process can work both ways. Instead of empowering men, women can emasculate them by challenging their power. By teaching women to usurp male power, the Illuminati created a new breed of feckless males incapable of concerted political action. Divide and Conquer.

Recently, I saw close up how this process works. A friend, “Garry,” is broken up because his common-law wife left him. The split came after a “domestic assault.” He pushed her. She wasn’t hurt but she might have been scared. She called the police.

As a result, they were physically separated by law, and the relationship ended. I don’t like this policy but it does end a lot of dysfunctional relationships.


She had the power. He felt guilty for being resentful and angry about it. He was sorry for pushing her and thought his anger was a terrible thing. This reflects his indoctrination. His striking out was a natural result of an untenable situation.

He related a Jane Goodall documentary about chimpanzees. The male chimps sometime go haywire, screaming and yelling and throwing things. The women and children cower in fear. Then the storm passes and they’re all nurturing and welcoming again. He felt that as a male, he was like the chimps. He had this evil demon within him.

“You’ve got it all wrong,” I said. “Those male chimps were asserting their dominance. Once they did that, they could go back to being loving husbands and fathers. Don’t believe what the counselors tell you. You’re not dangerous. A man has a right to be master of his domain. Quit beating yourself up.”

Garry had felt he had no home. His ex insisted that her 20-something daughter live with them. She had her way in spite of Garry’s objections. This daughter made sure everyone was miserable if she was, which was most of the time. It was Garry’s house. The woman and daughter lived rent-free.

Garry had needed to be firm at the outset. “Neither of you will live here.” Instead he went to a men’s group called “Evolve” to learn to “deal with his anger.” There it was all “shame and blame” the man. He needed to control his anger and be more accommodating.

He was so impressed that he got his ex to attend the women’s chapter of the same government-funded agency. There the message was designed to empower women. “Women are an oppressed minority. Rise up against those evil males.” (This is typical Communist ‘consciousness raising’ i.e. indoctrination.)

His ex became very argumentative, especially when drinking. After their enforced separation, she had him arrested for driving by to look at his house.

To her credit, she eventually moved out. But all the furniture was hers. She had forced him to get rid of his. Now he’s rattling around an empty house trying to rebuild his life. He let his friendships lapse.

Garry is a mild mannered and capable 55-year-old man. But when he related what his ex had done, his body language was that of a child. Any man who is ruled by a woman becomes a child or a woman.


You probably know someone like Garry. If you don’t, get a movie called “Flannel Pajamas.” The writer-director Jeff Lipsky tells the story of his marriage. Compare Jeff at the beginning and the end. At the beginning, he is powerful and generous. At the end, he is a mouse. He gave away his power and now she didn’t love him any more. Women lose interest in men who try to buy their love, or love in a self-negating way.

Heterosexual relationships are about the exchange of female (worldly) power for male power expressed as love. Men want power. Women want love. Marriage is the exchange of the two, sealed by exclusive sex.

The Illuminati have sabotaged this exchange by exaggerating woman’s power and diminishing man’s. Men are brainwashed to think romance and sex are the sin qua non for happiness. Many become paralyzed, unable to approach a desirable woman. Too late they learn the real benefit to a man of a woman is exaggerated by a factor of five.

Paradoxically, this return to reality enables a man to secure female companionship. To their credit, woman are attracted to men with self respect.

Heterosexual relationships are about a man getting a woman to do what he wants. This is called “courtship” i.e. proving that his aims are worth supporting and he will protect and nurture her.

When he earns this trust (tantamount to her love,) she surrenders her worldly power to him. This is the heterosexual contract: power for love. (Of course, the contract is voided if he doesn’t keep his end of the bargain. i.e. love. Thus he must consult her.)

Men should project power and never show weakness. They should establish their authority from the get-go. A woman can have power or love. But she can’t have both. This is the litmus test. If she doesn’t agree, move on. You’ll save yourself a lifetime of grief.

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